The WAY we talk to our kids has a huge impact on their learning and ability to listen to us.
We are constantly modeling to our kids how to act and behave and the way we talk to them fits right into this category. The way we speak to them and those around us is showing them how we want them to speak back to us.
We’ve found that there are generally three different ways that parents communicate with their children:
- The first one is in an aggressive way. These parents yell a lot, put their kids down and use attacking words. Their children respond in many different ways, mainly by playing up a lot more, feeling fearful, yelling back and ignoring their parents’ constant orders.
- The second form of communication commonly seen is a passive form. These parents mutter soft, cautious words and tones to their kids finding that they run riot and walk all over them. Unfortunately, these parents are so passive that sometimes when they are pushed to their limits, they suddenly turn their communication into an aggressive tone.
- Last, but not least, the third way parents can communicate with their kids is in an assertive way. This is what I (as a teacher, school principal, trainer at a women’s university) found to be by far the most effective way to communicate with kids – our future adults and partners – at all levels. An assertive way of communicating is firm, consistent, clear, positive, warm, confident. Communicating with kids in an assertive way is a real skill yet it shows your kids that mum and dad know what they’re going on about and to listen.
We all want to raise an emotionally intelligent child. It may not be your natural style because you were not raised that way; it may be difficult for you because of the examples around you. However, you can learn and begin to practice from the minute you walk out of Beryl’s course
So what’s stopping you? Reserve your place with Beryl Comar today.
The goals of this online course are to enable participants to:
- Understand where their styles of communication came from
- Learn practical, effective methods of communication
- Know how words affect children and their feelings
- Examine methods typically used to get children to behave
- Understand why these methods are self defeating and lower self esteem
- Learn methods for engaging cooperation
- End manipulation of parents, and children
- Offer alternative ways to look at punishment
- Begin to give responsibility to children
- Help children problem solve
- Encourage autonomy without rebellion in children
- Free themselves and their children
- Reinforce all the above with the SleepTalkME System
3 Exclusive Workshops in Girona (nr Barcelona) Spain with Beryl Comar & Bob Burns
Book Separately or as a Bundle
mindsetproacademy.com/bob-beryl-training
We’re excited to invite you to 3 exclusive live workshops in Girona Spain with 2 of the world’s most respected names in hypnosis: Beryl Comar and Bob Burns.
Thanks to their close relationship with MindsetPRO Academy, we offer these trainings at a very special fee for professionals.
You can book each workshop separately or attend all three for a full immersive experience.
Friday, May 30
SleepTalk Method with Beryl Comar
Time: 4:00 PM – 8:00 PM
Location: MindsetPRO Academy, Girona
Price: €97 (VAT included)
Does your child have trouble concentrating, staying on task?Are they being bullied, stressed, or anxious?Have they been diagnosed with ADHD, anxiety, or behavior issues?Perhaps they’re still bedwetting, nailbiting, being aggressive or tardy?
Imagine discovering a method that improves your child’s confidence, reduces sibling rivalry, sharpens focus, and boosts academic performance and sports motivation.
Would you take that opportunity?
Saturday, May 31 & Sunday, June 1
The Swan with Bob Burns
Saturday: 10:00 AM – 6:00 PM
Sunday: 10:00 AM – 2:00 PM
Location: MindsetPRO Academy, Girona
Price: €280 (VAT included)
The Swan is a protocol developed by Bob Burns from Montrose, Scotland, used by therapists, psychologists, and healers in over 65 countries worldwide. It can be used within hypnosis but is also a powerful tool for working with people who are not experiencing deep hypnosis.
Sunday, June 1
The Broken Heart Cure with Beryl Comar
Time: 3:30 PM – 7:30 PM
Location: MindsetPRO Academy, Girona
Price: €97 (VAT included)
A special workshop by Beryl Comar that will teach you how to mend your broken heart through the recipe for the broken heart cure.
Beryl Comar is a globally respected expert in Emotional Intelligence, NLP, and Hypnosis. She was the first to introduce hypnotherapy to the Middle East and has trained thousands of therapists across five continents. Beryl authored HypnoDontics: A Manual for Dentists and Hypnotists, a comprehensive guide on integrating hypnosis into dental practice. She is also the creator of The Broken Heart Cure, a structured approach to emotional healing. Her teaching style is both warm and transformational, making complex methods practical and accessible.
Bob Burns is a seasoned hypnotherapist, international speaker, and the creator of The Swan protocol, a revolutionary hypnotic technique used by professionals worldwide. With decades of experience in both clinical and stage hypnosis, Bob is known for blending depth, precision, and humor in his teachings. His hands-on, down-to-earth approach empowers therapists of all levels to work more confidently and creatively with their clients.
Seats are limited, and this is a rare chance to learn from these international masters Girona near Barcelona – Direct flights from UK to Girona, home of “Crown of Thrones” – yes, visit the sites of battles and other shenanigans whilst here for an unforgettable weekend in Gerona’s Famous Flower Festival month of May
